Hola! I’m back on the blog now for my next blog post. So the next blog post is as followed:
For this post, return to the skill builder for Fostering Intercultural Communication. Describe in writing the intercultural scenario that you observed for that task and present an interpretation in light of your understanding of cultural norms and values and the fundamentals of effective communication.
During my holidays, I used to tag along with my dad whenever he has any business meeting. My dad has adopted an informal way of holding meetings in which he doesn’t like having one in an office. His favorite joint when it comes to holding meeting with foreign client is the Straits Kitchen, Hyatt Hotel. Partly because a large pool of his client is Muslim and Straits Kitchen is one of the two Halal fine dining in Singapore. The ambience is also suitable as it is a balance of informal and a formal setting. I usually sit at the table next to them, chatting with the restaurant’s manager or doing Sudoku. YES, a self-professed geek I am!
- How's the family doing?
- Manchester United lost again!
- So, how do you find Singapore's food?
Anything that involves family, health and general interest. This part of socializing tends to occur over the entire meal. It may take a good hour since the buffet spread may probably take that long to cover. After the last plate has been cleared from the table, my dad will order another round of drinks before officially starting the business discussions. It’s usually very quick and most probably is over in 20-30 minutes.
However, after one of his business meetings with an American business partner, his partner made a ribbing remark about how in America, they always get straight to business first before socializing. My dad kind of took that remark to heart and throughout the whole journey home in the car, he kept asking me whether he was rude.
I personally feel that my dad didn’t do any harm. Since he has been hosting clients from the Middle East, they tend to discuss personal issues before business. I think that Asians tend to be interested in building long-term relationships. This is in contrast with some other countries such as America, where the purpose of the meal is to discuss the matter at hand (i.e. the business) before socializing.
So what say you?